The most frequently asked question in this quest for happiness is how we begin. There is no specific answer to this question. Each person’s journey depends on several factors. Where they are in their life at this moment, where they wish to be in near future and finally what do they want to make of their own life.
However for all of them, there are, of course, certain basic principles to observe. Today I will discuss these principles.
First, remember, YOU are the most important thing in your life. So start with that.
For those un-initiated, let me start with a few examples to elaborate more on this point. When you say:
See the similarity there? No? What is the key word? Let me show you.
‘My’ is the key word. Indeed. So, my dear friends, it is YOU who is the key and centre of your entire existence.
Now tell me are you honest to YOU? Are you sincere with YOU? Do care for YOU? Do you love YOU? Are you honest to YOU?
The journey of million miles begins with YOU taking the first steps. No one else, nothing else matters. Only YOU and YOU only matters the most in your life. Even your GOD will help YOU provided YOU help yourself.
How conveniently we always look outside of us to put blame. Whatever it may be. Be it success, failure, disappointment, joy, sorrow … we always try to find a fitting alibi outside of us. It is so wrong. It is not outside. YOU are responsible for anything that happens in your life. Get that very clearly.
This one simple fundamental will break all the barriers in your life. You will then truly set yourself free. Do not come around with some sad stories about missing your dead parents, lost love, broken heart and all that. All these are alibis that you have found to escape from taking full responsibility of your own actions and choices.
Remember, taking responsibility does not mean feeling guilty. That is so naïve. Being responsible simply means to be consciously aware of your being. Of every aspect that YOU are.
Stop looking outside, if you wish to succeed in ‘Law Of Attraction’ and practice ‘I Factor’ theory. ‘Power Of I’ demands that first YOU take responsibility and thus bring about some simple clarity in your life. Everything else then happens almost automagically.